It's not set in stone but we are probably going on our first dinner date we've had in the lifestyle. They live about an hour from us they are a little older than us and seem to be nice looking. They found us via the lifestyle website. We were supposed to go next weekend sometime because of both couples having busy schedules. Last night they emailed us wondering if we could do a last minute change and maybe this weekend? We said sure and suggested a restaurant kind of in the middle of where we both live.
I have to admit like anything else that is new, I feel a bit nervous. How do you act? What do you wear? How much do I flirt? What if we aren't feeling it? What if they aren't feeling it? Is the wheelchair going to be awkward to them? Do we make moves first or do they? Do we do something after dinner?
There is an excitement of the unknown and I know you just can't plan things out. I guess the best bet is just be myself (which sometimes scares me). I'm not as forward sometimes when it comes down to it, even if I want to be. Hopefully someone will help me over that hump (so to speak) when and if we get there.