I think it's time to hit the road, hop a flight or sail away to someplace great. We haven't gone on vacation in a couple years, besides a weekend getaway here or there. We need to relax, do something different, reconnect, have wild sex, and forget about life for awhile.
With his job he has time off periodically, but not with any notice. And if there is notice, we either don't plan, or have no extra money to go do something. Time to snap out of the rut, get out of the daily routine and frolic a bit.