Saturday, November 1, 2008
For years now my husband and I have been searching. I don't think what we are looking for exists. We have looked online at numerous sites and joined a few and then quit. We go on our little searches and basically end up where we started off. We would like to be around like minded sexual people. We are not swingers, but we are exhibitonistic and voyeuristic. We went to a voyeurweb party about 2 years ago, which was pretty interesting and to say the least, a bit exciting. Absolutely unplanned, we hit it off with a couple and had them come back to our house. That was so out of character for us, but we just were spontaneous and figured what the heck. We had sex in our living room with our own partners and it was kind of odd and very fun at the same time. Just being in the same room next to another couple getting glimpses of them and knowing they are doing the same. That was that and in general after all was said and done, I think the he of that couple wanted a little more and we ended the night and never saw them again. The group at that party as a whole were swingers, which is all good if that's your thing, but not what we were looking for. Most sex type clubs seem either creepy & seedy, or they want you to swing and therefore we can't seem to find our little niche. Also, we are average people and not hard core hotties that do the major party scene, so what does a couple such as us do? As of late we've given up on trying to find that certain sexual interlude, but have hopes of someday finding a safe comfortable place to live out some of our fantasies.