tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post6638350992980547918..comments2023-09-16T05:27:28.809-07:00Comments on Are you my life?: Sexual SearchingLa Roohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04338419296170239822noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-60653915420624094122008-11-10T21:23:00.000-08:002008-11-10T21:23:00.000-08:00La Roo,I totally hear you about feeling safe. No, ...La Roo,<BR/>I totally hear you about feeling safe. No, you are not a wuss either! <BR/><BR/>We have been places that did not feel right, also have been places we like a lot but on that particular night there were people there we did not feel safe with for some reason. Listen to your gut about that and never let anyone violate that boundary or try to tell you that you are being a wuss about momentextasehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10478000365545091891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-59517815263929074312008-11-10T19:24:00.000-08:002008-11-10T19:24:00.000-08:00Moment... a big issue for me is feeling safe. The ...Moment... a big issue for me is feeling safe. The so-called average person is vulnerable and with my situation it is expanded.<BR/>We've never been to a club.We've attempted it several times. Everytime... we 've check out a perspective place, they just don't look clean or safe. I'm probably just being a wuss.<BR/>Actually, there's an opportunity through a newsletter that we get from this nice La Roohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04338419296170239822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-20606651130326365542008-11-10T13:23:00.000-08:002008-11-10T13:23:00.000-08:00Well, it's cool you know what you want and what w...Well, it's cool you know what you want and what works for you and what does not. Thats half the battle! Stick to your guns on that!<BR/><BR/>Here in Seattle we have a couple of very classy clubs... but LA seems to have none! Las Vegas has the famous Red Rooster... which is not exactly like New Horizons in Seattle, but has friendly and respectful regulars...<BR/><BR/>We do the clubs once in a momentextasehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10478000365545091891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-4888837454691252202008-11-04T11:13:00.000-08:002008-11-04T11:13:00.000-08:00You know, I guess it's the adventure of it all. If...You know, I guess it's the adventure of it all. If we happen to stumble across what we are looking for, then good and if not I think it's ok too. I guess as long as we do it together and are turned on by it or the thought. <BR/>Thanks for sharing with me you guys, it makes me feel like I'm not alone in this journey.La Roohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04338419296170239822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-17789705811956597802008-11-03T10:57:00.000-08:002008-11-03T10:57:00.000-08:00Have you tried AdultFriendFinder? While many peopl...Have you tried AdultFriendFinder? While many people on there are swingers, you can specify what you are looking for, and always always always talk to the couple for as long as you need beforehand to make sure that everyone is on the same page. I had luck with that site. There are also groups on there that you can join to find out about parties and such. Also, you can always attend swinger partiesBritni TheVadgeWighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01938616640809312563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-35596697061828780192008-11-02T15:44:00.000-08:002008-11-02T15:44:00.000-08:00I really enjoyed reading this blog ,but for me it ...I really enjoyed reading this blog ,but for me it raises more questions than it answers ,I do like the slow approach to finding your niche and I wish you luckAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-84785725717698388022008-11-02T06:53:00.000-08:002008-11-02T06:53:00.000-08:00Sex is such an individual thing . . . it's hard en...Sex is such an individual thing . . . it's hard enough for couples to find common ground. To find what suits a couple outside their relationship is usually more difficult if not impossible. One or both come away from those experiences often disappointed or disillusioned. I've been there, done most everything both in, around and out of marriage and know well how these things go. At least the Bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14771037852922296505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-73460785462941601072008-11-01T23:39:00.000-07:002008-11-01T23:39:00.000-07:00That's a nice post. It can be so hard to find your...That's a nice post. It can be so hard to find your niche in life. We are on a very slow pace to finding ours as well. Good luck with yours and thanks for sharing.13messageshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15423518021779291575noreply@blogger.com