I don't know if i am sexy, but I am definitely sexual. There is also a bit of an exhibitionistic side to me. It makes me feel empowered . I guess to say to myself, you are more than the chair and you can get noticed, a side from your disability. Plus, quite frankly.... it turns me on and it's fun!
It took a lot of soul searching and being okay with myself to be able to untighten the restraints of my upbringing and become a sexual woman. Now, the only people that know that I'm this way, are my husband and a bunch of strangers.