When our relationship was new I remember how we used to have to make sure that one another had come during that session of sex. No pressure, huh? Who's keeping score anyway? Are there times when one of us doesn't get taken over the edge? Yep and that's ok. Being comfortable to give and receive makes all the difference. We have our ups and downs with sex and when we get on a roll.....Watch Out! I love pleasuring my husband and that wasn't always the case. This isn't something your mother taught you (thank god). You're on your own here and it takes practice (watching porn doesn't hurt either). Being comfortable with yourself and your partner helps and just the sheer joy of giving pleasure. I just think about giving him a blow job and send myself into a frenzy. Ok why is it called a blow job? It's a suck job, right?
Anyways, I'm happy to say that both sides are winners in this game.
