tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post6084845366544856459..comments2023-09-16T05:27:28.809-07:00Comments on Are you my life?: Flustered fantasiesLa Roohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04338419296170239822noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-56169897062394613232010-08-25T14:16:49.507-07:002010-08-25T14:16:49.507-07:00Why thank you so much LaRoo. When the woman who gu...Why thank you so much LaRoo. When the woman who guided me for over 10 years past my fears and through embracing all that I am died -I made a promise I would pass on what she, and the lovers she left me with and those I have met since- had taught me. She was such a teacher about life. She left me with a "one for all and all for one" sort of ethic.<br /><br />I get 'flustered' toomomentextasehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10478000365545091891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-3677202710813594612010-08-24T21:45:13.593-07:002010-08-24T21:45:13.593-07:00Momentextase-Wow I'm so glad I went back on my...Momentextase-Wow I'm so glad I went back on my posts. i don't do that often, but for some reason I did. I know that reason, probably because I'm experiencing being flustered again or maybe still. <br />I so much appreciate you sharing your own experiences. It is helpful on many levels. You have such a great way with words and get the point across in such a real way. I found myself La Roohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04338419296170239822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-32805711796916976802010-08-22T10:22:18.915-07:002010-08-22T10:22:18.915-07:00La Roo wrote: "There is a comfort level with ...La Roo wrote: "There is a comfort level with that situation that fluctuates, so I don't know if it's ever the right time to talk about things."<br /><br />It's always the right time. Communication is the key to everything. On our second date (the first time we had sex,)we promised each other there was nothing we could not or would not talk about. We promised not to edit momentextasehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10478000365545091891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-29690304817957813112010-08-08T23:07:46.362-07:002010-08-08T23:07:46.362-07:00southern sage- whoa, that was like spot on. dude! ...southern sage- whoa, that was like spot on. dude! k, so prolly a dead thread, but, i'm in pain and loaded... la roo. it is very apparent how much u love ur man and he loves u. and he, by the pics u post, seems like a totally sweet and hot dude, and like way easy going. if i'm off, well, i'm sorry girl. anyways, there is nothing in ur mind that he doesn't already know about. u knowRacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01584870967430205513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-22953880716698398232010-08-08T15:03:04.526-07:002010-08-08T15:03:04.526-07:00I think there is never a bad time to discuss it. ...I think there is never a bad time to discuss it. How can we know what our partners want, need or desire if we don't discuss it. I stay on the bride all time about just saying it, hell I'm a big boy if she'll tell me what she wants I'll do it. But if she doesnt I will never even know she wanted it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-74352289196319405712010-08-06T22:06:27.638-07:002010-08-06T22:06:27.638-07:00Bigger-Not being good enough is not the issue at a...Bigger-Not being good enough is not the issue at all. It's about my feelings being acceptable. Plus feeling comfortable enough to talk about it.<br /><br />Bob-Is that how that saying goes? :) I like that way better than the way I thought it went. <br /><br />annalise-I can say my husband and I enjoy each other pretty much on an equal level. We've grown in many ways because we do take La Roohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04338419296170239822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-37713241897019152412010-08-06T19:22:14.549-07:002010-08-06T19:22:14.549-07:00Never a right time to talk about certain things th...Never a right time to talk about certain things that you are afraid of the consequences. But if you dont' talk about it, either nothing is going to happen (you don't do it), or shit happens (you do it). I've been there.Luvhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16926681452692147476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-44235301445318295432010-08-06T16:41:32.846-07:002010-08-06T16:41:32.846-07:00Annalise: It's only an issue with two men in ...Annalise: It's only an issue with two men in the room (bed) if they happen to cross swords. <br /><br />WHOA! Get the fuck over.<br /><br />Woman: Mi Casa su casa.Bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14771037852922296505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-70852925878213480592010-08-06T15:32:23.529-07:002010-08-06T15:32:23.529-07:00lol on the bonsai car wrecks :P
with out fantasy ...lol on the bonsai car wrecks :P<br /><br />with out fantasy there's no progression. in the world, and in life. i don't think verbalizing a fantasy is hurtful, it's not rooted in the inadequacies of ur lover, but in a want for more, for u. i bet u give alot to ur hubby, all kinds of considerations. he has fantasies too, u willing to trade? fear is the best road block invented. it comesRacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01584870967430205513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-78342114186378807572010-08-06T13:05:50.442-07:002010-08-06T13:05:50.442-07:00Well, one thing for certain. If your fantasy invo...Well, one thing for certain. If your fantasy involves another woman any man in their right mind would say, "Bring it on, girl! But I get to participate, too!!) If that's what's on your mind then hells bells, sit that man down and make plans. As many may will tell you, two bushes in the hand is better than one bird in the bush (I think that's how it goes).....Bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14771037852922296505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-2399847663312656592010-08-06T10:44:14.236-07:002010-08-06T10:44:14.236-07:00It is societies main problem. but if you know th...It is societies main problem. but if you know that something is going to hurt some one or make them upset or feel like they are not good enough why hurt there feelings. This is coming from some one who has always been told to think before you speak. I would say what ever was on my mind. now i have to stop and think before i speak. Thats why I said you would know what to say and you know whenBiggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02645058950277255445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-120557436462956942010-08-06T09:01:32.723-07:002010-08-06T09:01:32.723-07:00Did you see the post below this one? Or did you ju...Did you see the post below this one? Or did you just see the word fantasies and it was all over? :)<br /><br />Bob- Maybe you're right, but then how do we grow?<br /><br />Bigger-Is that general society's problem though? We don't show our true self? Then it becomes a bigger issue. Is it a feeling of not knowing the outcome? or hurting someone.?La Roohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04338419296170239822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-20488627475931981812010-08-06T08:00:58.467-07:002010-08-06T08:00:58.467-07:00There are some things that need to be talked about...There are some things that need to be talked about and others not so much. I could go on and on but you know what to do deep down you do knowBiggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02645058950277255445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-48187962340141133332010-08-06T07:46:25.668-07:002010-08-06T07:46:25.668-07:00Some things are better left unsaid.Some things are better left unsaid.Bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14771037852922296505noreply@blogger.com