tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post1781377075347341317..comments2023-09-16T05:27:28.809-07:00Comments on Are you my life?: Simply a lossLa Roohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04338419296170239822noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-45845532006799583682008-10-21T14:10:00.000-07:002008-10-21T14:10:00.000-07:00La Roo, please accept my (and our) condolences, th...La Roo, please accept my (and our) condolences, there are so many things familiar to me in what you write so powerfully here.<BR/><BR/>You wrote:<BR/><BR/>"I miss his smile and his tender heart and I wouldn't change a thing. Because one of the worst times in my life is also one of the best."<BR/><BR/>This is just amazing, so many times after my lover died (also of cancer) I attempted to describe momentextasehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10478000365545091891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-71161068886171282292008-10-21T12:54:00.000-07:002008-10-21T12:54:00.000-07:00your problems make mine pale in to insignificance ...your problems make mine pale in to insignificance la roo but I guess pity is not what you want its understanding your feelings and emotions and I see what you mean when you say its not all about hearts and flowers ,we are also going through a similar thing with a dear friend of ours (a subject I haven't got to yet)she has an inoperable brain tumour and is in the final stages of her fight,its Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-59085897274923317292008-10-21T11:08:00.000-07:002008-10-21T11:08:00.000-07:00My brother and I have the same type of relationshi...My brother and I have the same type of relationship you do with your sister. Without going into details I cut off the relationship 4 years ago and have never looked back. It was unhealthy to continue to manage a relationship with him and this move was the best for me. Sometimes we're forced, out of self preservation, to make decisions like that. Given the behavior of your sis, I think you're Bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14771037852922296505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-17137519327233744712008-10-21T08:43:00.000-07:002008-10-21T08:43:00.000-07:00Thank you Jake and Artist,I just needed to get it ...Thank you Jake and Artist,<BR/>I just needed to get it out. I hope that time will help work things out. Who knows? Life hands you quite a few things you just want to throw your hands up in disbelief. But I so appreciate the kind thoughts and words.La Roohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04338419296170239822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-30215868778333398282008-10-21T07:28:00.000-07:002008-10-21T07:28:00.000-07:00Your last sentence was the most sad and moving of ...Your last sentence was the most sad and moving of all really and I can absolutely see how this feels like a double loss<BR/><BR/>*hugs*<BR/><BR/>I hope that, somehow, writing about these experiences has helped a littleAn Artist Exposedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15518929200270156141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4865685070520199897.post-1492433701792535252008-10-21T04:23:00.000-07:002008-10-21T04:23:00.000-07:00Sorry to hear about your sad loss. and the probs w...Sorry to hear about your sad loss. and the probs with your sister. You've always known her illuminated by the bright light of your brother in law and now perhaps you see the person she's always been all along, either that, or the stress of her impending loss had a bad effect on her, sometimes people release the (why me) anger they feel in the easiest direction they can, towards the people they Jake larahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11030422212606185718noreply@blogger.com